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WALKED AWAY

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WALKED AWAY There were times when we had no option but to walk away from some daring situations, which tend to test our intelligence. Many atimes, because it is difficult to deal with, or does not give you any advantage you just walk away from things. Anytime you remember or recall such painful or tragedic events or happenings you feelings get hurt. When you walk away without handling that situation you are giving more room for history to repeat itself once again and unfold and when it does, you will be destabilized by the circumstance. Atimes, people who you think care about you, do not really care they just wait patiently and are eager to hear your story pretending to feel remorse or regretful about the present predicament or situation in which you are facing or passing through. the moment you tell them your secrets on hearing them, they just walk away from your life. Not wanting to give you answers for abadoning you in such critical, desperate, testing time when you ...

BEING EXTRAORDINARY

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BEING EXTRAORDINARY Being totally different and striving to make a difference. Someone with a high sense of reasoning would want to think out of the box, go extra miles to accomplish his purpose, always have a plan – (b) or an alternative plan for anything he ventures in to avoid disappointments. As the word goes “extra-ordinary” Extra meaning addition: it could refer to additional effort being put into something to make it successful. Ordinary meaning normal, just plain or lame. Combining both words to make a sentence simply connotes “extra” and “normal” “Extraordinary people survive under the most terrible circumstances and they become more extraordinary because of it.” “Heroes are ordinary people who make themselves extraordinary.” Some people do not need to listen to the most inspiring or heart touching story to change their mindset or orientation about themselves what they need is to think out of the box. Think of possible alternatives to han...

BEING A LEADER

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 Being a leader Leadership is not a matter of words but of practice being perfected by a good vision alongside with a positive mission. The vision of a leader is his foresight, have a unique vision and run passionately with it. Leadership is all about game playing and strategy laying,  Leadership is all about bringing out the best in those you are leading and taking them to a greater height. Leaders don’t rule by being authoritative, a good leader is one whose personality portrays discipline, humility, transparency and above all willing to serve the people whole heartedly. Many atimes, there are alot of vices which influences leadership They are as follows: Social media Peer group   Family Environmental factor A good and effective leader works hand in hand-in-hand with his followers. He doesn't feel he shouldn't participate in the work or activities being carried out Do not get carried away by people’s opinion about yourself, you could a...

STRIVING FOR THE BEST

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Striving for the best Always strive to be the best by aspiring for success, when you know what you are doing and how to go about it you will certainly get the result in no time. Being the best takes extra efforts, it requires determination, focus and stability Determination: Being firm and unshakened by circumstances which may arise as a test to you is what I call or refer to as determination Determination is a positive emotional feeling that involves persevering towards a difficult goal, in spite of obstacles or barriers. One can only be determined only when he or she has a goal to achieve. A aim to attain Determination can be likened to motivation and dedication. For you to be the best you can’t depend or rely on yourself alone you also need the alliance of others that’s where Co - operation comes in. Co-operation: seen as the act of working together or in unity towards achieving a common goal, aim or objective. Co-operation requires bringing or merging di...